Daughter Asks for Help as Mum’s Treatment of Helper Turns Abusive

A woman took to social media to seek advice on how to address her mother’s harsh treatment of their newly-hired helper. The woman explained that her mother has been overly critical and demanding, picking on every small mistake the helper makes, such as her use of a phone, the amount of food she eats, and her sleep patterns.

Concerns Over Excessive Workload and Early Wake-Up Times
The woman shared that beyond caregiving tasks, her mum has assigned additional chores like cleaning windows three times a week, doing laundry, cooking, and fetching water and tissues. The helper is expected to wake up at 5 am every day, even if she was up late caring for the grandmother, leading to scolding when she wakes up at 6 am instead. Despite multiple attempts to discuss these issues with her mother, the woman says she ends up in arguments with no resolution.